When a family member or close friend dies, adults must make the tough decision of whether or not to include children at funeral or memorial ceremonies. All funeral services should be open to children, including the wake, funeral, and burial. Memorial services may include members of the community of any age. Participating in these ceremonies with relatives allows the young person to be surrounded by caring adults and to find their own voice in the expression of their sorrow.
Funerals and memorial services are not something that should be pushed upon children. The kids' concerns and inquiries must be addressed, so learning why they don't want to go is crucial. Here, however, are some suggestions on effectively including children in memorial services and rituals if they express a desire to do so.
